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I am an American and have lived in Europe (Northern Europe) for over four years. I don’t fear awkward silences anymore either, but, what I do miss is an easy going relationship with conversation. It seems to me as if Europeans can be socially awkward and I am not sure if I will ever entirely warm up to the idea of “the culture of comfortable silence.” Perhaps a balance between insentient chattering and enforced silence would be nice. I believe conversation is an art, it is important, and it is part of what makes us human.


Northern Europeans do chatter but if it only flys. If it doesn't, like with many if not most people, there's no reason to chat.


The author forgot to mention what happens when large quantities of alcohol is involved. When everyone is drunk they are quite chatty.




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