It's actually kind of funny when you tell Java/C++ guys about how each time PHP receives a request, fires everything up from scratch, does the work, and then throws it all away. A fresh start each time.
What's even funnier is that in javaland they took advantage of long-lived objects by having deep and broad class hierarchies, with all code in instantiated objects ... which the PHP community emulated in their frameworks, instantiating a bazillion objects on every request just to throw them away immediately. IMHO it's no surprise that in the techempower benchmarks raw php is orders of magnitude faster than a symfony implementation.
Jaw, meet floor.