Sometimes I just don't know... It's nice to work in the US for a lot of things - money first and foremost. But San Jose is also a good example of what's unpleasant about the US. Even a small town in Italy has (at least) an order of magnitude more character and interesting things, rather than sameness and right angles. It's difficult if not impossible to attach a monetary value to, but I think there are definitely some externalities involved in living in a beautiful place, that at least for some people, compensate for the other things that are wrong.
depends on where in the midwest you are. I'm in michigan and routinely visit Chicago for work.Chicago isn't bad at all; but I've been to the valley a few times and it doesn't compare.