You can't download Gemini's weights either, so it's not relevant as a comparison against Gemini.
I think the actually-relevant issue here is that until last month there wasn't API access for Grok 3, so no one could test or benchmark it, and you couldn't integrate it into tools that you might want to use it with. They only allowed Grok 2 in their API, and Grok 2 was a pretty bad model.
Yes OpenAI has a first-mover advantage and Claude seems to be close as a second player with their closed models too, open weights is not a requirement for success but in an already crowded market (grok's prospect) their preposition isn't competing neither with top tier closed models nor the maybe lesser-capable but more-available battle-tested freely available to run locally open ones
less people using them.