Trying to equate any random hand gesture that just happens to have their arm extended at some point isn't fooling anyone, but it's a strong signal for your true feelings on the matter so I appreciate the time-saving part of it.
This would be my cue to dip out of this conversation, and I will actually stay out -- if random people reading through these replies feel compelled to tell you this, and your response is to put a crown on your own head, I will leave you to it.