Its a bit like when you are a two-bit loser but have a private island where you can do whatever you like, and invite every celebrity you can find over to party every weekend, then start complaining that they haven't paid any of the island running costs and that they are all spongers because you are the main attraction of the island parties.
I find your analogy to be poor: is someone owning a private island and familiar with lots of celebrities a loser? I'd very much like to be such a "loser".
