I don't mind making Safari 'potentially crash more' - I only mind if it actually does crash more. Since Safari crashes are very few and far between, and haven't noticeably increased since I installed Silverlight some time ago, this potential problem isn't high on my list of priorities.
I suppose I can always go back to Lynx if these things really bother me too much.
I don't see where you (necessarily) get "small subset" from.