I have used and use all three. I find Windows, despite annoyances and annoying trends particularly with their "Apple-fication" of the Control Panel, still to get out of the way the most. macOS can't even adjust volume or brightness of non-Apple monitors, which is an intentional move by Apple. macOS is absolutely full of arbitrary limitations and hidden things. Windows is much better for hardware interaction.
To me things like third party monitor control are easily fixed[0] papercuts compared to things like the inadequacies in Windows’ virtual desktop implementation (e.g. can’t switch desktops independently per monitor).
