You seem to be trivializing experiences I shared without providing a basis. Please correct me if I am wrong.
> would be solved with a little bit of advance planning instead
We needed more planning, because ...? I am lost as to your criteria here.
We solved many complex family issues with smart phones, which the kids used responsibly, largely due to lots of planning of healthy activities and quality use of time.
The kids also competently leveraged their phones for other valuable benefits, and it was especially nice for me to be able to contact them at any random point (outside of classes), without having to know where they were. They are my kids - being electronically present, via voice, text, pics, gaming apps, etc., when I was not able to be physically present, meant a great deal.
> Obviously your mind is made up
My "mind is made up" because ...? What is your basis here?
Throwing around an empty (potentially projecting) accusation, does not make it true.
For 25 years and going, we have adjusted our parenting roles by trying new things, seeing what works, seeing what stops working, and adjusting. "Making up our minds" would not be a useful means or goal.
> would be solved with a little bit of advance planning instead
We needed more planning, because ...? I am lost as to your criteria here.
We solved many complex family issues with smart phones, which the kids used responsibly, largely due to lots of planning of healthy activities and quality use of time.
The kids also competently leveraged their phones for other valuable benefits, and it was especially nice for me to be able to contact them at any random point (outside of classes), without having to know where they were. They are my kids - being electronically present, via voice, text, pics, gaming apps, etc., when I was not able to be physically present, meant a great deal.
> Obviously your mind is made up
My "mind is made up" because ...? What is your basis here?
Throwing around an empty (potentially projecting) accusation, does not make it true.
For 25 years and going, we have adjusted our parenting roles by trying new things, seeing what works, seeing what stops working, and adjusting. "Making up our minds" would not be a useful means or goal.