It's been five years since I expect my email to be read. If I lack another channel to the person, I'll wait some decent period and send a "ping" email. But for people I work with routinely, I'll slack or iMessage or Signal or even setup a meeting. Oddly, my young adult children do actually use email more so than e.g. voice calls. We'll have 10 ambiguous messages trying to make some decision and still they won't pick up my call. It's annoying because a voice call causes three distinct devices to ring audibly, but messages just increment some flag in the UI after the transient little popup. And for work email I'm super strict about keeping it factual only with as close to zero emotion as my Star Trek loving self can manage. May you live long and proper.

There are certain actions I have to use email for, and it feels a little bit more like writing a check each year.

And all these email subscriptions, jeez, I don't want that. People who are brilliant and witty and information on Xitter or Mastodon in little slices and over time I still don't want to sit down and read a long form thing once a week.