Most software startups these days? The blog post is about work done at a startup after all. By the time your db is big enough to cost an unreasonable amount on RDS, you’re likely a big enough team to have options. If you’re a small startup, saving a couple hundred bucks a month by self managing your database is rarely a good choice. There’re more valuable things to work on.

By the time your db is big enough to cost an unreasonable amount on RDS, you've likely got so much momentum that getting off is nearly impossible as you bleed cash.

You can buy a used server and find colocation space and still be pennies on the dollar for even the smallest database. If you're doing more than prototyping, you're probably wasting money.

I’ve been the guy managing a critical self-hosted database in a small team, and it’s such a distraction from focusing on the actual core product.

To me, the cost of RDS covers tons of risks and time sinks: having to document the db server setup so I’m not the only one on the team who actually knows how to operate it, setting up monitoring, foolproof backups so I don’t need to worry that they’re silently failing because a volume is full and I misconfigured the monitoring, PITR for when someone ships a bad migration, one click HA so the database itself is very unlikely to wake me at 3am, blue/green deploys to make major version upgrades totally painless, never having to think about hardware failures or borked dist-upgrades, and so on.

Each of those is ultimately either undifferentiated work to develop in-house RDS features that could have been better spent on product, or a risk of significant data loss, downtime, or firefighting. RDS looks like a pretty good deal, up to a point.

RDS is a great choice, for prototyping and only for production if you know what you're doing when setting it up.

FWIW, this is common in all cloud deployments, people assume that running something "severless" is a magical silver bullet.

Maybe it takes you a month the first time around and a week the 10th time around. First product suffers, the other products not so much. Now it just takes a week of your time and does not require you to pay large AWS fees, which means you are not bleeding money

I like to set up scrappy products that do not rack up large monthly fees. This means I can let them run unprofitable for longer and I don't have to seek an investor early, which would light up a large fire under everyone's butts and start influencing timelines because now they have the money and want a return asap.

I'll launch a week later - no biggie usually. I could have come up with the idea a month later, so I'm still 3 weeks early ;)

It doesn't work for all projects, obviously, but I've seen plenty of SaaS start out with a shopping spree, then pay monthly fees and purchase licenses for stuff that they could have set up for free if they put some (usually not a lot) effort into it. When times get rough, the shorter runway becomes a hard fact of life. Maybe they wouldn't have needed a VC and could have bootstrapped and also survived for longer.

While I generally agree as far as initial setup time goes, I favor RDS because I can forget about it, whereas the hand rolled version demands ongoing maintenance, and incurs a nonzero chance of simple mistakes that, if made, could result in a 100% dataloss unrecoverable scenario.

I’m also mostly talking about typical, funded startups here, as opposed to indie/solo devs. If you’re flying solo launching a tiny proof of concept that may only ever have a few users, by all means run it yourself if you’d like, but if you’ve raised money to grow faster and are paying employees to iterate rapidly searching for PMF…just pay for RDS and make sure as much time as possible is spent on product features that provide actual business value. It starts at like $15/month. The cost of simply not being laser-focused on product is far greater.

Databases are not particularly difficult to migrate between machines. Of all the cloud services to migrate, they might actually be the easiest, since the databases don't have different API's that need to be rewritten for, and database replication is a well-established thing.

Getting off is quite the opposite of nearly impossible.

Optionality and flexibility are extremely valuable, and that is why cloud compute continues to be popular, especially for rapidly/burstily growing businesses like startups.

If you want a different opportunity cost, get people with different experience. If RDS is objectively expensive, objectively slow, but subjectively easy, change the subject.

I don't think that's accurate. I've self-managed databases, and I still think that RDS is compelling for small engineering teams.

There's a lot to get right when managing a database, and it's easy to screw something up. Perhaps none of the individual parts are super-complicated, but the cost of failure is high. Outsourcing that cost to AWS is pretty compelling.

At a certain team size, you'll end up with a section of the team that's dedicated to these sorts of careful processes. But the first place these issues come up is with the database, and if you can put off that bit of organizational scaling until later, then that's a great path to choose.

Its about tradeoffs, and some tradeoffs are often more applicable than others - getting a ping at 7am on a Sunday because your ec2 instance filled it's drive up with logs and your log rotation script failed because it didn't have a long enough retey is a problem I'm happy to outsource when I should be focusing on the actual app.

If the cost of a hosted DB is going to sink the company, then of course, I will figure it out and run it myself. But it’s not, for most startups. And therefore that knowledge isn’t providing much leverage.

Starting an AI company with deep expertise in training models - that is an example of knowledge providing huge leverage. DB tech is not in this bucket for most businesses.

It would have cost a negligible amount. But the sheer amount of time I wasted before I gave up was honestly quite surprising. Let’s see:

- I wanted one simple extension. I could have compromised on this, but getting it to work on RDS was a nonstarter.

- I wanted RDS to _import the data_. Nope, RDS isn’t “SUPER,” so it rejects a bunch of stuff that mysqldump emits. Hacking around it with sed was not confidence-inspiring.

- The database uses GTIDs and needed to maintain replication to a non-AWS system. RDS nominally supports GTID, but the documented way to enable it at import time strongly suggests that whoever wrote the docs doesn’t actually understand the purpose of GTID, and it wasn’t clear that RDS could do it right. At least Azure’s docs suggested that I could have written code to target some strange APIs to program the thing correctly.

Time wasted: a surprising number of hours. I’d rather give someone a bit of money to manage the thing, but it’s still on a combination of plain cloud servers and bare metal. Oh well.

Sounds like you are walking massive edge

Very small businesses with phone apps or web apps are often using it. There are cheaper options of course, but when there is no "prem" and there are 1-5 employees then it doesn't make much sense to hire for infra. You outsource all digital work to an agency who sets you up a cloud account so you have ownership, but they do all software dev and infra work.

> If its so fundamental to your product and needs such uptime & redundancy, what are the odds its also reasonably small?

Small businesses again, some of my clients could probably run off a Pentium 4 from 2008, but due to nature of the org and agency engagement it often needs to live in the cloud somewhere.

I am constantly beating the drum to reduce costs and use as little infra as needed though, so in a sense I agree, but the engagement is what it is.

Additionally, everyone wants to believe they will need to hyperscale, so even medium scale businesses over-provision and some agencies are happen to do that for them as they profit off the margin.

AWS and the like are rarely a cost effective option, but it is something a lot of agencies like, largely because they are not paying the bills. The clients do not usually care because they are comfortable with a known brand and the costs are a small proportion of the overall costs.

A real small business will be fine just using a VPS provider or a rented server. This solves the problem of not having on premise hardware. They can then run everything on a single server, which is a lot simpler to set up, and a lot simpler to secure. That means the cost of paying someone to run it is a lot lower too as they are needed only occasionally.

They rarely need very resilient systems as they amount of money lost to downtime is relatively small - so even on AWS they are not going to be running in multiple availability zones etc.

Also, Aurora gives you the block level cluster that you can't deploy on your own - it's way easier to work with than the usual replication.

These questions always sound flawed to me. It's like asking won't I regret moving to California and paying high taxes once I start making millions of dollars? Maybe? But that's an amazing problem to have and one that I may be much better equipped to solve.

If you are small, RDS is much cheaper, and many company killing events, such as not testing your backups are solved. If you are big and you can afford a 60K/yr RDS bill than you can make changes to move on-prem. Or you can open up excel and do the math if your margins are meaningfully affected by moving on-prem.

On some level, AWS/GCP/California relies on you doing this calculation for the things that you can do it on easily (the savings of moving away), while not doing this calculation on things where it's hard to do (new development). That way, you can pretend that your new features are a lot more valuable than the $Xk/year you will save by moving your infra.

Yes, I've done the math. The piece you are missing is, saving money on infra will bring in $0 new dollars. There is a floor to how much money I can save. There is no ceiling to how much money the right feature can bring in. Penny pinching on infra, especially when the amount of money is saved is less than the cost of an engineer is almost always a waste of time while you are growing a company. If you are at the point where you are wasting 1x,2x,3x of an engineers salary of superflous infrastructure - then congratulations you have survived the great filter for 99% of startups.

>That way, you can pretend that your new features are a lot more valuable than the $Xk/year you will save by moving your infra.

Finding product market fit is 1000x harder than moving from RDS to On-prem. If you haven't solved PMF, then no amount of $Xk/year in savings will save you from having to shut down your company.

The thing is, most features, particularly later in the life of a company, don't have an easy-to-measure revenue impact, and I suspect that many features are actually worth $0 of revenue. However, they cost money to implement (both in engineering time and infra), making them very much net negative value propositions. This is why Facebook and Google can cut tons of staff and lose nothing off their revenue number.

Also, there's a bit of a gambling mentality here which is that a feature could be worth effectively infinite revenue (ie it could be the thing that gives you PMF), so it's always worth doing over things with known, bounded impact on your bottom line. However, improving your efficiency gives you more cracks at finding good features before you run out of money.

So moving to/from Aurora/RDS/own EC2/on-prem should be a matter of networking and changing connection strings in the clients.

Your operational requirements and processes (backup/restore, failover, DR etc) will change, but that's because you're making a deliberate decision weighing up those costs vs benefits.

You can use DNS to mitigate the pain of changing those connection strings, decoupling client change management from backend change process, or if you had foresight, not having to change client connection strings at all.

I mean, DNS change can work, but when you're doing that one-in-years change, why risk the extra failure modes.

No one runs their own electricity supply (well until recently with renewables/storage), they buy it as a service, up to a pretty high scale before it becomes more economic to invest the capex and opex to run your own.

I mean, I'm looking after a 4 instance Aurora cluster which is great feature wise, is slightly overprovisioned for special events, and is more likely to shrink than grow 2x in the next decade. If we start experiencing any issues, there's lots of optimisations that can be still gained from better caching and that work will be cheaper than the instance size upgrade.

There’s still a defined cost to swapping your DB code over to a different backend. At the point where it becomes uneconomical, you’re also at a scale you can afford rewriting a module.

That’s why we have things like “hexagonal architecture”, which focus on isolating the storage protocol from the code. There’s an art to designing such that your prototype can scale with only minor rework — but that’s why we have senior engineers.

People pay for RDS because they want to believe in a fairy tale that it will keep potential problems away and that it worked well for other customers. But those mythical other customers also paid based on such belief. Plus, no one wants to admit that they pay money in such irrational way. It's a bubble

Come time for force major upgrade shoved down our throat? Downtime, surprise, surprise

One of these is not like the others (DBAs are not capex.)

Have you ever considered that if a company can get the same result for the same price ($100K opex for RDS vs same for human DBA), it actually makes much more sense to go the route that takes the human out of the loop?

The human shows up hungover, goes crazy, gropes Stacy from HR, etc.

RDS just hums along without all the liabilities.