Do you have a special pair of glasses for the normal computer distance? I ask for them every time my prescription updates. I have two pairs of glasses, one for driving and one for computer/around the house, and my headaches/eye strain have gone way down since I started wearing those regularly.

Not sure if that helps at all. Kind of sounds like you're not wanting to wear glasses at all. I've been wearing mine since I've been six years old, so I don't really know any other way (tried contacts for a year and they were just too annoying to deal with).