Both comments are exaggerated. *BSD is used in some Japanese embedded devices like router or PlayStation, but generally Linux is far more popular. Embedded engineers aren't actively publish information like web/app engineers, so there are less information for BSD usage on internet. Still Linux is far more popular in general.
For example, let's see how much articles posted for them. Though newbies tend to use Linux and matured BSD devs tend to not post on Qiita, still it's over x20 difference.
Also many firewalls use freebsd/openbsd, from pfSense to opnsense to genugate.