People don't like high density because it sucks. I want a yard, not a tragedy of the commons communal space. I want to be able to remodel without having to get a commities approval. I want to have lavender flowers in my garden because they remind me of my mom. I want to sit on my porch and drink coffee in peace, not have communal tables. I don't want to come home and not deal with vomit in my entry way/elevator. I don't want an HOA/COOP Board gatekeeping and policing me.
People don't leave college and move into dorms of 'in-groups' that meet their bias.
Do you make up in your head your partners movitions, frustrations, wants in your head too? Or do you just dehumanize motivations for people who don't hold your 'correct' opinion?
EDIT: Anyone who wants to force high density housing on others should ONLY be allowed to take vacations on community loving cruise ships. I mean, there is no valid reason to not want to vacation on cruise ships, and by putting all vacationers together it improves efficient, maximizes space, and reduced impact, right? That is the only acceptable vacation. There can be no valid reason to not require all vacations be via cruise ship.
People don't leave college and move into dorms of 'in-groups' that meet their bias.
Do you make up in your head your partners movitions, frustrations, wants in your head too? Or do you just dehumanize motivations for people who don't hold your 'correct' opinion?
EDIT: Anyone who wants to force high density housing on others should ONLY be allowed to take vacations on community loving cruise ships. I mean, there is no valid reason to not want to vacation on cruise ships, and by putting all vacationers together it improves efficient, maximizes space, and reduced impact, right? That is the only acceptable vacation. There can be no valid reason to not require all vacations be via cruise ship.