I agree. Unless you know you are building something that will start out needing millions of transactions per second, you are more likely over-designing if you are building a bespoke database.
Standard tools are useful because you can get to working code fast ... this is why LAMP is still such a powerful framework upon which to build. While it may make sense to consider adding a search indexer (Solr) or key-value cache (Redis), for almost every use case, rewriting data storage is a waste.
Also, to paraphrase Ted Dziuba, it probably doesn't matter if your product doesn't scale, because nobody cares, or will ever use it. So I think it is better to get something up and running quickly to see if anyone cares before you bother trying to optimize for the rare case where your product turns out to be the next Twitter.
Standard tools are useful because you can get to working code fast ... this is why LAMP is still such a powerful framework upon which to build. While it may make sense to consider adding a search indexer (Solr) or key-value cache (Redis), for almost every use case, rewriting data storage is a waste.
Also, to paraphrase Ted Dziuba, it probably doesn't matter if your product doesn't scale, because nobody cares, or will ever use it. So I think it is better to get something up and running quickly to see if anyone cares before you bother trying to optimize for the rare case where your product turns out to be the next Twitter.