I huge partition is often spread across multiple sstables, and often has tombstone issues if the large partition consists of a large number of column keys or any regular update cycle, which is often the case for hot rows.
In that case the overhead of processing and collecting all the parts of the data you need spread across different sstables and then do tombstones can lead to a lot of memory stress.
In that case the overhead of processing and collecting all the parts of the data you need spread across different sstables and then do tombstones can lead to a lot of memory stress.