I really don’t feel the same. As a young adult you get to see your parents get very old very fast, and also when you get internships first job and such your parent has been in retirement for ten years and is clueless about the workforce. Also they’re too old to bother to be grand parents now. Also my old man globally did not give a shit and focus on his own aspirations while he still had free time in good health and financially prepare for his retirement rather than see and help his kid bloom as a young adult. And I can’t really blame him for it.