crawl => walk => jog => run => sprint
Gotta learn to crawl before you walk [and so on..]
[crawl]- Pick a new city. Me: Houston.
local/inner circle/same street/apartment complex
[walk] - meet new people at work, hang out. It's tough but still possible in really big cities such as HTX.
[jog] - Naturally you will spend more time with those that you are more attractive to. Key word. Natural. If you fake it to make it, you'll probably just end up in the wrong crowd and not realize it. Story of my life. Possibly.
[.. and so on... you'll eventually find something that ticks you off enough to do something about it. At that point, you should just go for it. Considering you've made it this far with several great quality replies on HN.]
^ Having a structure like this beforehand can inevitably point you in the right direction for what you are trying to accomplish.
I hope this message provides some value. Regardless, best of luck!
crawl => walk => jog => run => sprint Gotta learn to crawl before you walk [and so on..]
[crawl]- Pick a new city. Me: Houston. local/inner circle/same street/apartment complex
[walk] - meet new people at work, hang out. It's tough but still possible in really big cities such as HTX.
[jog] - Naturally you will spend more time with those that you are more attractive to. Key word. Natural. If you fake it to make it, you'll probably just end up in the wrong crowd and not realize it. Story of my life. Possibly.
[.. and so on... you'll eventually find something that ticks you off enough to do something about it. At that point, you should just go for it. Considering you've made it this far with several great quality replies on HN.]
^ Having a structure like this beforehand can inevitably point you in the right direction for what you are trying to accomplish.
I hope this message provides some value. Regardless, best of luck!