I don't deny there's racism, but I'm not the offender, because of the appearance of my skin if I don't see enough sun. Neither are my kids. People who believe in self-identity do not honor that I don't identify myself as a white person. My people have never colonized countries, never had slaves - on the contrary, we've been slaves for a total of 7 centuries throughout our history! So, I sympathize and try to help, but, please, don't send my kids home crying with the guilt of being perceived as white people! This is not helping solve the racial issues by building up more unfairness! Racism is an individual guilt, it cannot be a collective one - just like any other crime. Accusing people of profiling Arabs as terrorists while profiling white people as inherently racist - how is this fair?!
Like gender, race involves both racial identity and socially ascribed race. Privilege, which relates to (but is not in and of itself) passive participation in systematic racism (and, on the flip side, oppression and victimization by racism, whether active or passive) is mostly a factor of socially ascribed race, not racial identity.
You can try to intellectualize this growing unfairness as much as you want, and twist every concept to your own liking, but don't think people are stupid, and don't see what you're trying to do. Eventually, all this will not end up well. Event the most patient run out of patience eventually and that's what I think people behind this is a seeking - a wide-scale conflict. Just look back in history! And see the writings on the walls around the globe! People are tired of this nonsense and activists planting guilt in them and their children.