If you're right, you already have mental systems in place to produce the right answer. If you're wrong, the feedback will help your systems self-correct.
If you ask for help, you're using someone else's systems, and whether they're right or wrong carries very little weight about how you should be approaching things. You're not producing a system, you're adding an item to a lookup table that you might someday use to build a coherent approach.
'Fire is hot' is a good entry for a lookup table, but you also need to develop a general model of where potential dangers are and that you should approach them with caution. There is no number of entries that equal that system.
And you lack the visceral experience why it’s the right choice.
A kid that grabs a hot stove will never try again. A kid who listens to their mom will.