Meaningful communication happens between your ICs. The weekly hour-long team meeting where the manager polls the room and nobody has anything to say is just a waste of everyone's time. Reducing what you have to say to an email has the effect of distilling and refining it, and in many cases leads to the realization that it was wrong to begin with, or doesn't warrant saying.
Judging by the sheer level of resentment the poster holds for management, as a whole, it sounds more like it could easily be a case of their manager needing to replace a report.
Communicating is 1/2 of business; it's really odd that so many people have difficulty with this.
I think because as Engineers, we measure value in 'code' then we tend to diminish all the other aspects of the business or process.
Meetings can obviously be a waste but they are also critically important.