How do you know what most incidents result in? For example, when Github deleted their production database[1], they simply gave no numbers of affected users/repositories. We do know that the platform already had over 1M repositories[2], so 5000 affected seems perfectly possible, but their lack of transparency protected them against such claims. And that lack of transparency seems to me to be the norm.
[1] https://github.blog/2010-11-15-today-s-outage/
[2] https://github.blog/2010-07-25-one-million-repositories/