I think I'm probably more pro-revolution that most, but c'mon, really? You really think that basic rules of human courtesy are the boot on the neck of humanity?

We're talking about something much more fundamental than social norms you might call patriarchal or cis-/hetero-normative or anything like that. This is the kind of behavior that keeps you from getting punched. And most people are explicitly taught these behaviors as children, whether in pre-school / kindergarten or just by being around other children at all.

Surely we can identify much more important factors propping up the current social order.

It's both, really. A part of the social contract is that, unless there are strong extenuating circumstances, everyone is expected to obey the law of the land.

It's kind of like with sports. Both football and basketball are perfectly fine disciplines on their own, but the most fundamental rule of any game is that all players play by the same rulebook. You can't have a game if every player thinks they're playing a different sport.

I'm reminded of when Bertrand Russel said that Hegel’s idea of freedom “means the right to obey the police and it means nothing else at all”.

Of course, you're not Hegel, and I'm definitely not Russel. So I'll just leave it at that :)

> It's also something no one ever signed

Which is why we don't have to reinvent civilization every generation, forever not leaving the caves.

> and is a concept loved only by those benefiting from the current order.

Which, under reflection, should be most people, as the alternatives available through abandoning civilized society are strictly worse.

You can say the exact same thing about property rights or the non-aggression principle.

The current order? I think you're overthinking things here. Were talking about social etiquette that says you should not leave your messes for other people to clean up.