Lots of choices are toxic and most people underutilise free will. Society will have to pay the cost in terms of poor mental health and related issues. Some people thrives alone while someone else in groups. Both should co-exist for functional society.
I think your first sentence is a great way to sum up what I was trying to say.
What we have now that we didn't use to have is an actual freedom to choose our path - at least, relative to what we had in the past pre-industrialization.
It is indeed very easy to make a lot of choices that result in loneliness or unhappiness. But at least more of us have those choices.
