I've not edited my post in the way you describe, or in any way comparable. All edits I perform either do not change what I wrote (spelling) or I very clearly append it to the post with an "edit:" prefix.
I've not written that I operate "the" matrix server.
Maybe you should just leave this mentality of "if said thing disapproves of somoene's business, the person saying the thing must be opposed to someone in person." behind.
Because with this mentality of yours means you have a personal dispute with me. Better disclose that before saying such things.
I never talked to you, unless you are the same guy who "operates the single federated independent matrix server" and who does have a personal dispute with matrix.