Any social partner dance, really. "Ballroom dancing" may evoke mental images of old-fashioned dances in a formal setting, but there's a huge selection of different dances, some very modern and casual. West Coast Swing [1] is my passion. Its roots are in Lindy Hop, the grandfather of swing dances (and itself very fun to dance) but it's modern and smooth and sexy and mostly danced to contemporary popular music.
+1 on WCS. My only regret was not taking dancing lessons early. Guys, one of the easiest things to improve self esteem and to have fun at social occasions like weddings is to learn some basic dance steps. It's not as hard as it seems and the basic classes do assume you can't dance at all.
Big +1 for this. I personally haven't done any ballroom dancing, but I've done a lot of Contra dancing over the years and it has been a lot of fun [1]. Any social dance is great exercise and great for brain health [2]. Contra dancing is much more laid back than ballroom but many of these things in the article still apply to some degree. Contra dancers are usually very friendly and it's not hard to find a partner dances, even if you are new.
How is it a ton of fun? To me it seems to be one of the most boring things I could ever conceive. I am sure it's fun to people who do it however, and I am trying to understand why. Who knows, maybe once I understand it I will want to do it myself. I don't think this is an unreasonable question.
I'm having a lot of fun grinding mirrors for hours of a time. I am sure most people would not consider that to be fun, but boring menial work, but I am having lots of fun. I won't try to sell this activity to anyone else "because it's fun" as I am sure they just won't get it since they aren't into it already. It requires more careful explanation.
At a typical 'Ballroom beginners class', there will be no-one there who can already dance (i.e. if they were already great then they'd be in the next class up, etc). But also most people will have two left feet : Happy klutzes all around, without needing the excuse of alcohol to feel liberated. And there's always something to talk about... People are there just to have some fun, but don't feel the need to go 'CRAZY'. It's a nice atmosphere. Perhaps go for an icecream afterwards :-)
I presume you have a certain mental image of "ballroom dancing" that might not be entirely accurate, or at least is needlessly narrow. Many social partner dances put a heavy emphasis on self-expression, musical intepretation, improvisation, and partner communication. It might not be for everyone but it certainly can't be said to be boring.
The class may or may not be fun, but the extra skill can be. It's a physically intimate exchange between two people (in partner dances like ballroom emphasizes). If you enjoy music, it gives you another avenue for enjoyment and participation (actively responding to what you hear, as the lead choosing the right direction and movements for you and your partner, as the follow choosing the right flourish to add to a movement). Socializing is generally enjoyable for human beings, even introverts at least for a period of time, and this is one way to socialize. You also learn to let go which can allow you to experience more joy/fun than being overly anxious and rigid.
It's not a rigid thing. There are certain movements that everyone learns to start with, the basic waltz and foxtrot and such. Then you learn to combine different movements but still staying within the confines of the waltz. You learn how to add flair to it. It's like musical improvisation if you've ever played an instrument or sung, but physical, with your whole body. There are rules and constraints (really, conventions and guidelines). The restrictions impose challenges that can be fun to work within and around (a typical waltz is a 3/4 time piece, the dance is often done in a circle around the room, but what twirls and such you add are yours to choose and at the right time). Every dance will be different and unique.
I have to ask, do you actually have fun grinding mirrors for hours? Like, you actually experience joy and glee from the activity proper? Or is it the end product you enjoy or the challenges of finding the right way to achieve the qualities/properties you desire from a mirror with the tools and techniques at hand? Or is it, like running for me, meditative in its repetition, but still novel enough at each turn to not be mind numbing?
Disclaimer: I know very little about any of this, and am just commenting because I was surprised by one of the places listed. That place listed, I work for its 'sister' credit union, State Employees' Credit Union (NC)
It looks like the list items are there for different reasons, not all because they're big lenders who got bailed out. I clicked on Greater Kinston Credit Union[1]. Its reason for being on there is the 'Community Development Capital Initiative'[2].
Excerpt from [2]: 'designed to provide cheap financing to Community Development Financial Institutions (CDFI): banks, thrifts or credit unions that operate in markets underserved by traditional financial institutions. The idea was that the banks would then lend that money to small businesses in their areas.'
That one sounds pretty benign (i.e. it's not "bailing out Too Big To Fail companies for crappy practices"--GKCU is a small credit union), so I think the list you posted is more nuanced than crappy Too Big To Fail bailout companies.
This actually gave me a bad taste until I read your comment, now I'm wondering if that exact situation might be a positive. Maybe it's a plus if they can say "We're hiding your ads, but here's an alternative" rather than simply "We're hiding your ads", full-stop.
If you haven't read Accelerando by Charles Stross, you should check it out; that's one of the things it explores--laws, terms of use, and companies being carried out as programs. It's a super cool science fiction story that explores a ton of really out-there ideas, all pretty plausibly.
Just looked that one up, it's book 3/3 in a series, first two being Singular Sky and Iron Sunrise. Do they all touch on this topic? And if not, does Accelerando stand alone well enough to be read without the other two?
The latter. Their chips aren't sold through distributors, and they'll pretty much only give the time of day to high-volume OEMs. They stonewall companies that are big enough to get in-person visits from sales engineers from other major vendors (TI, Freescale, Xilinx). Raspberry Pi cofounder Eben Upton was a technical director at Broadcom, so he had inside connections.
They normally deal in massive quantities. Asking for a couple thousand units just isn't worth the effort. That's what makes the RPi Foundation unique -- Broadcom _does_ deal in small quantities for them in support of the mission.
> and provoke a general sense of unease/impending doom
Oh shit I thought I was just weird. Do you have any more information on that? I felt that when I was getting a crown put in, it was horrifying, "impending doom" is the perfect description.
It also happened the (one) time I donated blood, though I don't remember being given any injections or anything though; but I felt that EXACT same "impending doom" sensation; at the time I thought basically "well this is the end, they accidentally took too much blood and I'm going to die now". I felt cold to the core and started sweating horribly and spontaneously, just like the time at the dentist.
>I felt cold to the core and started sweating horribly and spontaneously
Isn't that low blood pressure ? I felt that once when I had food poisoning, collapsed to the ground after having insane stomach pain for an hour trying to get to the phone to call ambulance, fortunately by the time I got up it cleared up.
I don't know; at the time, I generally had high blood pressure, and I don't know anything about what might cause it to raise/lower in the short-term (obviously losing blood would, but I dunno if a controlled, intentional blood-drawing for a donation would be enough)
And for getting it to work with most games, DS4Windows is what I use. Some games natively support the DS4 ("DualShock 4" is the PS4 controller's actual name) but most don't.
It was my main (only?) station. I had some 30 songs on it, pretty good sampling of my tastes (pretty typical pop/rock/etc. music... Daughtry, Train, etc.). It gave me great recommendations which for a while completely blew my mind over and over (when my friend told me about the human classification part, I was like, I KNEW there was no way a machine could've done this so well), but it eventually outright failed and just gave me that message. So I gave up on it too. I guess that's better than Spotify which just plays my own songs over and over again at my "radio" stations...
