Fermi's paradox isn't what you've stated.
Listen to the scientists. Not the politicians. Not the military.
So the question should be why are so many people believing in aliens when there is so little evidence for them?
I see lot of "close minded" people looking at the evidence and concluding that it's not enough evidence to conclude aliens are visiting us.
It looks like these UAPs are everywhere but the evidence is so low level that I wouldn't even conclude they aren't just planes or ducks instead.
See my comment in the sibling subthread.
I don't trust the military or Congress since they're happy to spend money on ESP or telekinesis studies and still not be able to reach a conclusion.
Military pilots have mistaken Venus as a UAF.
I can't just trust an eyewitness account of something fishy as evidence for exterrestrial beings visiting us with faster than light speed vehicles.
Misinformation is like junk food. It triggers people's endorphins while scientific thinking is vegetables and fruits. It can never win.
Smart and not curious: who knows? psychopath?
Both: fun person to talk to at a party
Fermi's paradox isn't what you've stated.
Listen to the scientists. Not the politicians. Not the military.