I reckon some integration with social networks could be a good way for you to gain some leverage. People would be able to tag the friends they'd like to bang and see who would bang them back. I think curiosity would send some traffic your way, especially because there's a natural virality to your app if you approach it that way.
The best of luck, and please keep us updated on how things develop!
I cant thank you enough! It's great to talk to someone who had the same experience. Now The Next Web has also done a piece on us too and things are moving.
You point to something that sounds obvious, but truth is I have barely interacted with my users so far. Need to start doing this in a hurry.
I think I also need to improve my sign up process, making it happen on a pop up window through Facebook JS SDK.
Thanks! I'm trying to give a boost to my quasi non-existent social efforts and I think this is helping! :) I have to let go of my wallet too and pay for some extra server power. I have to admit the site is too slow...