In my experience, it also grounds us and gives us useful feedback loops with what we can really control, and what really matters to us, the most.
Which is super important.
In my opinion, a lot of the crazier things going on in the world are due to a lot of people not being well connected or healthy with those things, and being susceptible to manipulation by outside forces looking to harness that angst.
The digital era has propelled us further into the "hyperreality" that Jean Baudrillard wrote and warned us about. [1] You descend into pure madness the moment both feet leave the ground and you give in to it.
Our children are living in it, it will be all their children have ever known.
Living small is about keeping one foot firmly planet in the desert of the real.
I live in a small village. In it (and in neighbouring villages) the checkout ladies appreciate (even when it comes with some minor work) the occasional small talk.
(That said, in larger urbanised areas I appreciate self-checkout, because the former cashiers are now free to be wandering around the store, and very helpful for answering questions on locating items)
I'm not sure. 2000 is pre-AWS which means a lot of easy things were more complicated than they are now. Though Twitter is famously on-prem as well, so maybe they're equivalent?
My impression is Twitter handles traffic and complexity in a different magnitude than Netflix in the 2000. Internet usage was significantly smaller back then.
On-prem is a good point though. I don’t know a lot about their core infra.
As I mentioned elsewhere, I was wrong about Zip2; the board just refused to let him become CEO. But at PayPal, the board fired him after 6 months as CEO. That's documented in many places, including here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elon_Musk#X.com_and_PayPal
This certainty a good way to survive but not a good way to live.