Back then at least you could do something about it. Now if there's an obvious cheater you just kinda sit there and take your L, and ask people to make reports.

If you were playing on a server you owned or for which you had ban permissions, you could do something about it. Otherwise, you had to hope that an admin was online to ban the cheater. If no one was around to take action, your option was to... sit there, take your L, and ask people to make reports (to the admins). You had the option to hop around between servers until you found one that didn't have cheaters, but is that all that different from just quitting back to matchmaking and hoping you find a match without cheaters?

Edit to add: I'm not disputing that kernel-level anticheat is bad; I agree that it is. I don't think it helps to try and hearken back to a golden age of PC gaming that didn't really exist. Maybe it was easier for server admins to manage because player populations were smaller back then, but that's about all that would have made things "better."

You were not helpless if the admin wasn't on, votekick has existed for 25+ years.

Believe it or not us old folks who played during this time had ways to address these issues.

Votekick still exists in modern games, too.

Then it's weird you weren't aware of it when you posted your previous comment.

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was my favorite in the Quake3A mod I played.

> Back then at least you could do something about it.

Back then, the most common option taken was leaving the server to find another one.

This is drudging up some formative memories. In the counter-strike / TF2 communities you'd have servers that would grant vote kick rights with more playtime and some of those regulars would then apply for mod rights. It worked quite well.

It still doesn't solve the unfair votekick problem. People with more play time, doesn't have necessarly the abilities nor tools to judge if someone is cheating. Take a look at the trackmania community, some cheaters are caught years later, because they played it smart. Some cheating can't only be observed by looking at the statistics, or hard proof of cheating being ran.

It's a pub. It doesn't matter as long as it's not obvious aim bots and people are having fun. Besides when it's a 32 player instant respawn death match server you have like 200-300 regulars. That type of cheating was never an issue in those because the servers were always full during peak times and everyone kinda knows each other.

Something you are explicitly punished for in modern matchmaking. Unless you want to be downranked or even temp banned you must suffer the cheater.

They are not functionally equivalent, unless there are games I'm not familiar with where custom lobbies are published in a list for strangers to join. Normally a custom lobby implies invite only.

Not everyone is interested in a "fair and balanced competitive match" where you're guaranteed to win no more and no less than 50% of the time. I actually find that intolerably boring.

> They are not functionally equivalent, unless there are games I'm not familiar with where custom lobbies are published in a list for strangers to join.

Lots of the mosts played competitive games have that, or third party websites/discords that have links to custom lobbies.

Being able to make friends off-platform and then play with them is obviously not what we're talking about.

I have to conclude you're unfamiliar with what multiplayer gaming was like when servers were the norm.

> I have to conclude you're unfamiliar with what multiplayer gaming was like when servers were the norm.

Did you even played a single game competitively ? The fact you keep pushing for server browser tell me that no, you need communities on something else. You likely forgot the hassle that server browser were, and forgot that lots of games didn't had a server browser.

LFG communities were important and excluding this shows you were only playing casually, forgot all the problems servers browser had.

Do you even remember, that you could get malware by joining servers in a server list ?!?

No, I used to play multiplayer games for fun, which was the norm until that option was removed and replaced with derisive "casual" and "competitive" modes.

99% of people who played CS1.x/tf/Q3A/bf1942/cod/etc booted up the game, found a server in the browser with low ping to play on, and if they liked it they favorited it. They came back the next day, and the next, and started to recognized other players. That is the server browser experience.

If you were in the tiny minority of players trying to be "competitive" back then, you're right I don't know what it looked like for you. Sounds like it sucked, honestly, and maybe competitive matchmaking solved some of those problems, but in the bargain we lost a lot of what made those games fun for "casuals" as you smugly call us.

Again, it looks like you forgot all the issues there was, and only remember the good aspect of it. You didnt find the server on the first try.

Your favorite server was not always online

Some people were too good on the server you like and it wasn't fun.

Countless other problems, and you needed to sink in a lot of time to get the few quality time you wrote about.

> ...you needed to sink in a lot of time to get the few quality time you wrote about.

Sounds like you've got a skill issue. That doesn't match my experience, like, at all.

But a really, really easy shortcut was to find servers that indicated that they were furry-friendly. This all but guaranteed that

1) The folks on there would be fairly even-keeled and reasonable, and folks who weren't would be rapidly banned forever.

2) The folks on there would generally be good at the game. [0]

3) If you're lucky -and the game is one that permits custom "sprays" (as HL1 and Source engine did)- you might get to see some high-quality-but-thumbnail-sized furry porn.

[0] Seriously, at least back when both server browsers and user-hosted game servers were commonplace, I found a 1:1 correlation between "Are they a furry?" and "Are they particularly good at the game?". It was wild.

> The problem with player hosted servers is that it was very hard to get a fair and balanced competitive match

Playing against overwhelming odds has its own kind of charm. I once spend days just sabotaging the top players on some gun game servers, only wining myself once or twice. Games against friends with various fun handicaps and flat out abuse of any knowledge you could gain from playing against the same people repeatedly - what good is a hidding spot when everyone knows you will be there 50% of the time.

"Fair and balanced" games against completely random people are just missing something for me.

This is something matchmaking games totally miss which keeps them from being truly competitive in the way sports or old games were: a competitive community. You need other players with known identities to compare yourself against on a consistent basis.

Of course, classic competitive institutions had problems as well (“he’s very competitive” is not necessarily a nice description of a person!), but they seemed more enjoyable that this matchmaking stuff.