As a developer your entire purpose is to make decisions for users. "Where should this service live, how should security work, how should I increment their billed service usage, when should I shut down their vm..."
I don't think the issue here is making decisions for users and not giving them a choice. 99.999% of software does not have a flag to change it. The issue seems to be more about the precise nature of this specific feature.
> The issue seems to be more about the precise nature of this specific feature.
Of course. Not really just this specific feature, but any and all features that can violate users privacy or security. In the end, I don't think these are decisions that developers should be making for users, because not all users have the same needs and getting this wrong can do harm.
That's why, for these sorts of things, meaningful user consent is critically important.
I don't think the issue here is making decisions for users and not giving them a choice. 99.999% of software does not have a flag to change it. The issue seems to be more about the precise nature of this specific feature.