>engineer the conversation on behalf of and in favor of the user.

I wish I had your optimism... should a system exist, businesses will be the one using it to find the optimal time to charge you more money. Just look at what they are doing with Crisis Text Line - your brain is being completely engineered by big tech. Proprietary technology is developed not to solve problems or make the world better, it is developed to make as much money for businesses as they possibly can.